A lot of times we live believing that when life becomes a hot mess it's to hard to find a solution to the problems, so we should just run away from them. We try to escape the clutter and pain and the life that we are living by simply running away and restarting. Soon after, we realize that we are in the same situation all over again. The cycle continues. Pain, escape, momentary happiness, repeat. What we are running from always tends to follow. "Why does this keep happening?" is what we often ask.
The answer is simple. Because we run. Stop running from your problems. Stop, take a minute, and look at the bigger picture. Look at God's grander scale of your life instead of seeking answers in that individual situation itself. Open your eyes to see it all instead of squinting to see what solution there may be in the world's narrow scope. See that loss is often gain. See the light of the situation and work through it...not away. Conquer the pain. Persevere to find purpose.